THE RULE OF ATTRACTION

FROM DINMA'S TABLE...

When it comes to choosing a spouse, The RULE OF ATTRACTION  is one issue most people tend to ignore and violate  and in recent times, it's neglect is causing more harm than good. As much as the Success of a Marriage is not Limited to Attraction, I will emphatically state that IT IS VERY EXPEDIENT TO MARRY A MAN OR WOMAN YOU ARE INARGUABLY ATTRACTED TO. Attraction ranges from Beauty to curves, intelligence, Faith, religion, Wisdom, Attitude, Charisma, Achievements, Character, etc..

Every man or woman knows who and what catches their eyes easily. No one can deny that. My preference may differ from yours. I have my unique codes, so do you. This has little or nothing to do with one's Faith or religion. The power of attraction is one that neutralizes the prowess of any man no matter his status, title or strength.

Before some self acclaimed oversabi, Holier than thou hypocrites and charlatans come here to argue, let me mention that Even as a spirit filled Christian, there are certain ideals in an individual that charm you irresistibly regardless how much effort you put into fighting it. Binding and casting won't take away the charm. Speaking in tongues would neither make you invulnerable. It's a natural power that can't be resisted.

Knowing this, I really baffle at individuals who pay less attention to what attracts them to the opposite sex especially when it comes to making a choice in marriage. For God's Sake, GO FOR WHO MOVES YOU. Go for that Man or woman who makes you go crazy. One you know you can't have enough of their feel or touch. One who seduces you easily. One whom you are very vulnerable to. One who tames you and for whom you have a strong chemistry .

No Man or woman will easily catch your eyes if you strongly attracted to your partner. Even when confronted with a very seducing situation, the chances of overcoming will be high. NOT EVERY MAN CHEAT. * NOT EVERY WOMAN CHEAT!

Personally, I Know am easily attracted to Tall men who.........................................(of course, u don't expect me to start spilling them out 🤣🤣🤣🤣) in fact in a nutshell, Take a good Look at my Husband and you will have an idea.

According to my Husband, He got attracted to me at first sight. Yes, He told me am beautiful and I look innocent. He wasn't afraid or shy to tell me that he is attracted to my Beautiful face and curvy body. (So you know, there are other beautiful features he is attracted too also). He COMPLIMENTS me with them everyday. He knew what he wanted and didn't hesitate to go for it.

Why marry a man or woman whom you know you ain't attracted to because Your Pastor told you He or she is the WILL OF GOD for you? SMH*

Why marry a slim, light complexioned lady when you know you are easily attracted to a chubby, dark complexioned lady?

Why marry a spirit filled tongues speaking unromantic Man when you know you easily crave for a man who can be very Nasty and makes good passionate love to you WITHOUT RESERVE? (I guess you understand what I mean😜😜)..

WHY marry a woman who dismisses the discussions of Sex during courtship. She told you she doesn't like or enjoy Sex but you felt you are a messiah who can resurrect her libido when you marry her only to end up  frustrated in marriage because your libido is very alarming. (Please accept my Sympathy Bro).

Why Marry a struggling Young man when you know you have Your eyes on Riches?

Why marry a quiet and reserved simple girl when you know you crave for a Mad woman? 🤣🤣🤣

Why marry a career woman when u want a woman who would just sit at home and care for your kids?

Why marry a very smart woman when you know you love women who take your orders and opinions without opposing them?

Why marry a man who can't express himself in good grammar when you know you are easily drawn to men with good grammatical competence?

Why marry a lady who is not good looking when you know you easily attracted to Beautiful women?

There are so many WHYS I ask myself when I hear pathetic stories from some married couples.

There are so many issues we can avoid when we go for what you want. It drives me crazy when I hear a man say "I'm not attracted to my wife, I married her because she is a simple girl who can tend to my home" (Unku, Are you Mad?)

I know of a Silly man who  abuses his wife everyday that she is fat and forces her to starve herself to get slim. He practically Maltreats this young girl and makes her cry all the time. He uses the Fact that she is fat and unattractive to cheat on her and to think This Man met her Fat and now, he wants her to perform magic on her body is very appalling.

My dear friends,Whatever drives you in a man or woman, please Go for it. We can save ourselves the Regrets, heartache, trauma, unfaithfulness and Divorce if we go for what we want.

Nevertheless, bear in mind that we can't find all we seek in a partner . What you should do is make a list and follow ur topmost preferences. When you find a partner who possess 60% - 90% of what you want, GO FOR HIM OR HER!!

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