WHAT A MAN...

Feminist: what a man can do, a woman can do better. 

Plan of God: what a man cannot do, a woman can do. 

That's being a help meet. So why trying to do what men do as a woman, neglecting what you are meant to do. That's why the world generally now is in shambles. Only if women can take their place, then we shall see the beauty of life again.

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Law 4 of the forty eight laws of power says, "always say less than necessary." Silence can arouse suspicion and even insecurity, especially in your superiors; a vague or ambiguous comment can open you up to interpretations you had not bargained for. Silence and saying less than necessary must be practiced with caution, then, and in the right situations.

Silence is golden.

Not everything needs explanation. Not every word must be said. Sometimes saying less or nothing is really necessary.

I heard of a lady who slapped a guy as they queued up in the ATM stand. Everybody expected a reciprocating reaction from the guy, who ignored all expectations, and decided to remain silent. People started murmuring.Some people said the guy was a coward, some said he was a fool. Some other people criticized the lady's action, saying she lacked manners.

One early morning, few days after that incidence, the guy opened his door after several knocks to see the lady on her knees begging him to forgive her. According to her husband who went with her, he said she hasn't slept peacefully after that day, and that she was always startled at every unusual sound or movement.

That lady believed the guy was a cultist,who could take revenge on her for saying nothing. 

Most times, we should learn to trim down how we react to things. I once worked with a boss who always said I was evil because I would always look him in the eyes for long before walking away whenever he got angry. He respected me even more than my superiors.

Have you noticed that when you have an on-going project which you tell some people about, you always end up hitting the rock?

Always allow your actions speak more than your words.