STOP COVETING! You are more than enough.

How does Society  make us dissatisfied? By constantly convincing us that we need more.  God commanded not to covet. E get why.

I have never stopped hearing humans say things like

If only I had that opportunity.

If only I'm alittle bit taller.

If only I was born rich.

If only I could speak like that

If only I can earn such respect.

If only I have that killer body.

And the list goes on and on.

When will you stop? Aren't you tired? Stop it already!

All these things you keep wishing you had wouldn't make you any better than you already are. Many times we focus more on the small dots of ink on our white sheet and forget all the good in us. We focus on all the "if onlys" and get frustrated over our imperfections, our tiny faults.

The thing stopping you from achieving, growing and becoming all that God wants you to be is not what you don't have but all you have but simply refused to see because you are still looking.

You're wonderfully and fearfully made by the great designer. He has given you everything you need for life. He wasn't having a bad day when He created you. 

You're ENOUGH! 

You have all it takes to be the best you can ever be.

All that you are and will ever be has been imparted already. Find and harness it. 

The awakening will only come when you start acknowledging all the abundance of good in you. Acknowledging the fact that this YOUniquely you is enough is the beginning of you achieving great feats. It's the beginning of you

breaking those limits you set for youself.

Today,I want you to stop looking for those things you don't have and start searching for all that you have and start acknowledging them. Focus all your energy in discovering them and you will realise that you aren't small. 

By doing so,the realisation of all you can achieve with what you already have, will shock you. 

You are amazing and you're YouniquelyYou.

Written by NINA

COULD IT BE RAPE???

COULD IT BE RAPE??? 

I didn't want to say anything but just go with the flow of SAY NO TO RAPE.

I hate the idea of rape to start with except when I watch a cock chase after a hen. 

The concept is bad, 

The idea is detrimental, 

The feeling is second to none close to death if not more. 

RAPE IS BAD

RAPE IS EVIL

I wasn't there when Uwa faced and succumbed to death,

I wasn't there neither to give an affirmative speech to what really happened,

But I believe there are more that meet the eyes that what the media wants us to see. 

It's more political and spiritual than we think.

The concept I think wasn't for her to be raped, it was to kill her. 

Now I ask, why was rape used? 

So that we will be so focused to fight for justice and be blindfolded and distracted not to see the behind the scene.

It pains me that a life was lost. RIP UWA. 

I only got to know you now that you are gone, but no doubt, you were beautiful. The world will miss you.

NOWHERE IS SAFE ANYMORE! When rape is the order of the day, to become a girl child will almost become a taboo.

NOWHERE IS SAFE ANYMORE!

I still can’t bring myself to write on this without getting emotional .

We need to understand that the  inhuman act of RAPE OR SEXUAL MOLESTATION is one of the most  gruesome and traumatizing experience anyone  can go through. 

I wonder how those who perpetrate this evil sleep at night. 

I wonder how they live FINE and UNBOTHERED.

WHERE IS YOUR CONSCIENCE?

80% of women across the world have  either been  raped or sexually molested.

Our men are not left out too . 50% of our men were molested as boys  or experiencing it as men.

In some  cases, people who molest others were also victims of such demonic practice and it is cringing how they grow to pass it on others to inflict same pain , addiction and trauma they went through.

It is stomach - churning and obnoxious.

IT IS VERY PREPOSTEROUS.

You may not fully understand how it feels if you have not been a victim. It is horripilatating.

I write from an emotional state because I HAVE BEEN THERE. 

I WAS ALSO A VICTIM.

Dear parents, pastors, teachers, imams, doctors, infact everyone, 

WE HAVE MORE WORK TO DO!

WE NEED TO PROTECT THE NEXT GENERATION!

We need to teach our children and open their understanding to the effect of this evil. I feel we are not talking about it enough. We are not teaching our young ones enough.

NO WHERE IS SAFE ANYMORE. NO WHERE!😢

It’s even a struggle to trust anyone around our children anymore because in today’s world,

👉Husbands rape their wives

👉Fathers rape and molest their children 

👉Mothers molest their children 

👉Siblings sleep with each other

👉Older Relatives molest their younger ones and turn them to their object of sexual gratification.

👉Family friends do more harm than good

👉Spiritual leaders molest and sleep with their disciples

👉Leaders molest and even threaten their followers.

👉Teachers sleep with their students.

👉Lovers rape their special one and resort to it for revenge when they are hurt.

RAPE HAS BECOME AN ELEMENT OF REVENGE AND RIVALRY.

THIS IS JUST SICKENING!

IT IS HEART BREAKING.

NO WHERE IS SAFE ANYMORE!

We need to be careful whom we trust and bring  around us and our children.

We need to be careful and vigilant whenever we are alone.

We need to watch our children’s associations and behaviors

We need to pay attention to what they read, watch and listen to.

We need to make them feel relaxed to confide in us. 

Please let’s Be friends with our children. 

Stop shouting and nagging always. It scares them away. 

Let us Be more involved  in their life’s happenings.

Take time to sit and interact with our kids.

We need to protect ourselves and our world.

We need to raise our sons more ideally incorporating in them the virtue of moral uprightness.

We need to teach our sons to respect a woman’s opinion, body and decisions.

NO MEANS NO!

SILENCE IS NO CONSENT!

FLIRTING IS NO CONSENT!

PROMISCUITY IS NO CONSENT!

Like how do these rapists even get an erection amidst tears and the innocence of their victims.

THAT IS CROUCHING!

Our children need to understand that touching an opposite sex improperly is known as MOLESTATION and it’s purnishable.

It’s crazy that the people who mete out this evil against another are trusted close friends, family members and supposed models.

NO WHERE IS SAFE ANYMORE!

SAY NO TO RAPE!

SAY NO TO SEXUAL MOLESTATION!

SAY NO TO SEXUAL ABUSE!

#DinmaTheGifted