HUMANITY FIRST

They called it "THE #VULTURE AND THE #LITTLE #GIRL".

This photo of a vulture waiting for a starving Sudanese girl to die was taken by Kevin Carter who later won the Pulitzer for this picture, but he lived just few months to enjoy his supposed achievement because he later got depressed and took his own life. 

He was actually savouring his feat and being celebrated on major news channels and networks world wide.

 His depression started when during one of such interviews (phone in program) someone phoned on and asked him what happened to the child. He replied, "I didn't wait to find out after this shot as I had a plane to catch."...
 And the person replied,
 "I put it to you that there were two vultures on that day. One had a camera".

 His constant thought of that statement, led to depression and his ultimate suicide.

In whatsoever we do, let humanity come first before what we can gain out of the situation.

Kevin Carter could have been alive today if he just picked that little girl up and taken her to the United Nation's feeding Center where she was attempting to reach.

#LetLoveLead
#HumanityFirst

Written by Anonymous

THERE IS NO LIMIT TO SEX IN MARRIAGE.. (THE UNPAINTED TRUTH)

Undoubtedly, Marriage is  deeper and more  than Just Sex but we wouldn’t dare to overlook the fact that Sex is one of the salient  aspects of marriage and overtime, it has remained the predominant topic as long as marriage is concerned.
Basically, Sex is the focal point of a Couple's physical bond and intimacy and should be held in high esteem.

Overtime, I have had discussions with couples especially Christian  couples from various denominations and surprisingly, many couples do not explore and enjoy Sex in its entirety. So many are holding back because they feel they might offend God if they go extra sexually. As funny as it sounds, this is one struggle some couples are faced with.

Listen, God beautifully designed Sex exclusively for Marriage as a Spiritual mystery and as a secret agent to fufilling his purpose for mankind but while at it, couples are expected to have a full blown fun exploring  each other's body from head to toe with NO RESERVE.
THERE SHOULD BE NO LIMIT TO SEX IN MARRIAGE.

Sex in marriage shouldnt be boring . it should be one of the most exciting and thrilling life of a couple. YOU ARE MARRIED AND YOU SHOULD ENJOY SEX as much and as well  as you can.
So, if your sex life getting bored and complacent, lets be reminded of the following few tips below;

BE CANAL and VULGAR .
As much as Sex is a spiritual tool, please learn to shun out holiness , morality and decency in the bedroom.
THERE SHOULD BE NO GOOD BOY/GOOD GIRL ROLE in the bedroom.
Get Nasty. Yes you heard me right. GET REALLY NASTY.
Communicate with your spouse vulgarly and informally as you make love. It tends to intensify the sexual mood and atmosphere.
Let your spouse  know what you want him/her to do to you.
If you want to be sucked, fingered, smooched, caressed, licked, spanked, squeezed or made love to, please say it raw and stop painting words.
Moreso, moan with pleasure when your spouse is hitting right on your good spot. It ignites the feeling of pride and intensifies his/her sexual mood and turn on.

GET ADVENTUROUS.
It is believed that variety is the Spice of life so learn to Create life long memories by becoming adventurous. It is not a sin. Act out every sexual fantasy you can think of with your spouse. Do not limit your sex life to just a particular position , day, time, location , attitude,style , routine or place.
Be Spontaneous.
Be unpredictable.
Sometimes, A spontaneous and quickee sex tends to give the best orgasm. Yes, I said it.
Get sex toys , lubricants and costumes if you choose to. There is nothing too extra when it comes to enjoying sex in marriage as long as it is safe for both spouses.

BE PLEASURABLE.
Sex is very interesting and it leaves your spouse  craving for more when he/she derives so much pleasure from it  and you alone should be able to  give that pleasure unless you wanna loose your spouse to masturbation or adultery.
I know a woman who was married for twelve years but never experienced orgasm with her husband until she met a random guy who pleasured her, sucked and licked her clit so good that  he  made her cum for the first time. Truthfully, She lost interest in her marriage after that encounter and It took only God's Grace to restore her marriage( still in process though).
Am i justifying her action, Not at all but spouses need to learn to hit on each other's thrilling spot.
Spouses should learn how to give each other good and proper head( oral sex)  if they are both cool with it.

Dear husband,  do not ever slide into your wife's pussy without making her wet. She won’t enjoy the sex and also, learn  to finger your wives pleasurable without hurting her.
Learn to suck and lick your wife’s clit and Vjay pleasurably. Flick the tip of your tongue on her clit and around her Vjay opening. Nothing sends a women to cloud nine swiftly than that.

 Woman , learn to suck and smooch your husband's dick without inficting wounds on him. Learn to buffer your teeth with your upper and lower lips by slightly flattening them while you suck in and augmenting them as you suck out.
( There are ways you can practise till you become good at it).
Learn to ecstatically stroke your man’s dick to a strong Erection and indescribable pleasure.
Also, learn to be flexible to good postures for gratifying thrustings. For instance, If you or your man loves the doggy sex style, learn the proper arc positioning. It doesn’t just give room for a deeper penetration but it also helps target you G-spot.
If he prefers the usual missionary style, do not lie still. Let your fingers and waist be at work as he grinds you.

IT TAKES TWO..
One mistake some couples  make is believing that Sex is entirely a man or a woman's thing. Do not always wait on your spouse to initiate Sex. Whenever you need it, go for it.
Dear woman, do not just let your husband ride you at all Times. Sometimes, flip the scene around and ride him real good by practicing the “woman on top” position. Even if you are on the bigger side, there are ways you can still grind your husband's dick so well without resting your weight on him. Just learn and practice constantly. Most men love to be ridden on.

BE ROMANTIC.
Do not just have sex. MAKE LOVE.
Love making is a study. Know your spouse's mood and turn on. Be romantic by knowing what to do at intervals.

Know when to go slow and know when to go hard. Kiss while you make love. look into each others eyes.

Express  your pleasure through your facial expressions.
If you climax first before your spouse, be considerate enough to make him or her climax also regardless how tired you are. And after Sex, do not just get up without an affection of appreciation. Kiss, cuddle, smile, pat his or her back, use recommendable words, etc... These make your spouse feel good and not used.

NOTE.  There are times when Spouses may make love for long hours or various rounds  that  the woman's pussy gets dried up and lacks lubrication or the man's dick relapses without climaxing, do not work your self up. Pull out , drink some water and switch to foreplay or begin to talk naughty till you get in the mood again.

DO NOT LET CHILDREN, WORK OR ANYTHING STOP YOUR SEXUAL EXPLORATION. Do not get too busy to create time for Sex. Work around your schedules and use nothing as an excuse.

SIDE NOTE COMMINICATE, COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE!

Are there things you are bothered about and need to improve on, talk about it as a couple. Are there things  your spouse aint doing right, do not die in silence. Talk about it.

WHAT ABOUT ORAL SEX & ANAL SEX? I get asked this question a lot  and my answer has always  been the same.

>>>Explore and enjoy sex but not at the expense of your health and mutual consent. Whatever you wanna explore sexually, let it be a consensual agreement and make sure it is not gonna put your health at risk.

Conclusively, when it comes to Sex, it is different strokes for different folks. Just hold on to whatever rocks your boat . Do not Limit yourselves. Open up and try out new things. Do not hold back.

MAKE SURE YOU ARE ENJOYING YOUR SEX LIFE.

Written by #DinmaTheGifted

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU GIVE UP

We are humans. Imperfect. We all have dreams to accomplish, but at times, especially when we don't get what we want, we are faced with the urge to give up. That urge is normal. In fact, to consider giving up is so normal.

What's your dream again?

Everyone you have ever seen has a dream to accomplish. And you know what? People get it done everyday. People get to limelight everyday. They accomplish their dreams! And what about you? What's your dream again?

A short story

Years back when I decided to step up my game and go public with my writing skill, I wrote a long prose to be read out in a youth program in my local church. After the final editing, I carefully wrote it down on a clean sheet of paper. I was so excited and impressed with myself to have come up with such an award winning write up. Just then, my elder brother walked into the room. In that satisfied mood, I gave it to him to read. I told him that it was written to be read out in church.

He wasn't impressed at all. The only words of that prose I know he read were the title words before asking of the correlation between my title and the theme of the program.

The question threw me off balance, and for a second or two I felt like a loser. I was dismayed.

He threw the sheet of paper to be carelessly, and finally said "If you don't have any better thing to do on that day, just go and watch people who have better things to do."

That was the statement that broke the camel's back. I grabbed the sheet of paper that was busy dangling in the air that moment and tore it into pieces. I called it quit!

Yes I called it QUIT!

The Effect

I didn't pen anything down for almost, if not more than two years. Those were the darkest times of my life. I cried as a remedy to face my fears when I should have written them down so that they would only exist in my book rather than in my head.

I was dead just like anybody when they stop living. 

That's what happens when one gives up.

The eye opener

Take a look at everything within the reach of your sight, imagine those ones you can't see at the moment. Remember any invention that would seem highly impossible to you if you were told before it came to existence, like the invention of a large body like a ship to stay afloat on water, heavy metal like the aeroplane to elevate itself against gravity, trains, drones, name them.

How big is your dream compared to these inventions, but they were thought to reality by men like you.
So what's stopping you?
Get up!
You have stayed in that pity state for too long. The world needs to hear of a man call you! 
You are the miracle we pray to God for.

Peace.

LEARN HUMILTY

✍✍✍

Meeting an old class mate, we had not seen each other for about 30 years. The Lord has been kind to me. When I saw him again - this time at a hotel lobby - he was looking simple. He wore simple Ankara attire. I felt touched. He walked up to me and was glad to see me again. But deep within me I was not impressed with his status compared to mine and poor me, I couldn't hide it. We exchanged contact details and I could see the joy in him as he collected mine.

I told him I will drop him home in my brand new Range Rover and I pointed it to him. He declined and said he had already called for his car. It looked old, a 2001 Honda Accord.

I invited him the next day for lunch at my house. A part of me wanted to impress him - To show off my success and affluence to him, while another was to discuss opportunities and possibly help him.

He drove to Parkview where I lived. He looked impressed with my home. I had taken a heavy mortgage. In fact I was heavily in debt. We had lunch. He told me he was into small business and particularly real estate. I brought up more business discussions, but he didn't sound too interested. I asked him how I could help him. He said he was fine. I even told him if he was interested, I could help him secure some loans... He looked at me and smiled.

He told me he would invite me over soon to his place. His old car came for him. I was grateful to God for what I had.  “Fingers are not all equal”,  I thought to myself...I was lucky. I worked in a good place.

Two weeks later, we went to see him in Ikeja. My wife and I. She was reluctant to go because she was not impressed with the man's status as to warrant our visiting him in his house. I was able to convince her that we were close friends in college. We saw the Estate.  *Wuraola Estate.* We asked for directions to his home. Those leading us spoke his name with deference.

It was a simple but lovely home. A 4 bedroom bungalow. I saw 4 cars parked in front. We entered his home. It was simply elegant with a touch of class inside. He welcomed us warmly.

Lunch was well served. His wife called him Baba Wuraola

During lunch, he asked about my MD. He said they were friends. I saw a company gift on one of his tables nearby. That company owned about 38% shares where I worked. I enquired from him about it. He smiled. He told me he owned the company. He also owned the estate.

I did not know when I called him sir... I was in awe of him too.

I had learnt a lesson in humility - A big one. Appearances are deceptive. He noticed my discomfort.

Driving back home, I was very quiet. My wife was humbled and extremely calm. I could perceive the thoughts in her mind. I looked at myself. Living on loans, heavy loans and showing off while someone who pays my salary is quite modest and living a simple life!

Indeed Deeper Rivers Flow In Majestic Silence!

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