EVERY MAN NEEDS A WOMAN-SHAPED TRUST

When it comes to Commitment and long term goal in relationships, it's been observed and noted how guarded men keep their hearts. To state the obvious, an average man really wants to commit. He really wants to share himself and offer his heart but most times feels repugnant to take a step because HE IS AFRAID!

Now, let's forget about his Ego. Lay aside his achievements and personality, look beyond his stature, muscular fitness and bulging biceps. A man tends to hastily chicken out when Commitment stares him in d face. He tends to freeze when matters of d heart are raised. He wants to Hide and shy away because HE IS IN DOUBT! He needs a MOTIVATION! 

Strangely, a man wants more than the satisfaction he gets from a G-string possessor. He wants more dan that round ass which winks seductively at him every now and then. He craves for more than those succulent breasts that feed his lustful hunger at the snap of his fingers. He needs more than that Domestic super-woman who runs his domestic chores uninvited. A man searches for MORE!! 

Listen, If a man is to get the courage to unlock the vault of his affections, it will require a GREAT PRICE! This price is nothing short of ABSOLUTE TRUST! A man knows he needs a woman; for men cannot do without women (General assertion), but where can he find HIS WOMAN? A woman He can trust. A woman he can call HOME! A Man is earnestly and endlessly searching for a Trusted Shoulder he can lean on and a confident Lap to purge His stress and fears but He is AFRAID!! He doesn't want another DELILAH! Who does anyway??? 

Men  are like  lost sheep who have no place to lay their heads. They have been searching for Trust in the Shape of a woman and they are still searching. They are Looking at every corner.... at work, online, in the shopping mall, on the sports field, in their places of worship, in social gatherings, on the roadside, in books and magazines, in d bottom of a glass (winks), in the arms of a random painted woman whose name they don't know and most unfortunate, even in their Marriages. YES!! IN THEIR MARRIAGES!!!
         
For a woman to gain a man's trust means he is not inhibited in her Presence. He has examined her thoughts and knows that they are aligned with His. In her arms, He is all things he cannot be with others. In her arms, he feels like a giant, a warrior, a protector, so strong and fierce. Every man is like a lamb looking for shelter against the storm. Men are like whimpering, trembling Children in need of an embrace where there is peace and reassurance.

A man wants a woman he can hold and be held by her. He looks for an arm where He can find TRUST. It is this Trust that enables him whisper his deepest fears in her ears and tell his darkest secrets. He needs a woman who will be too wise to laugh at him and too concerned to condemn him. A woman who will not betray His confidence, discuss his secrets with the sisters' folk or air his weaknessses. A woman who will respect him, defend him and not speak ill of him neither scorn him in public even when the world is against him. A man wants a woman who will be on his Side. His very own Rib would feel strongly connected to. A woman he can vouch will be there for him in the crises of his life. A man searches for a Woman of morality who lets him know that she will not be moved, not by others' opinions nor their ideals. A woman who would be so proud of him. A woman who can scold and correct him yet her love remains unfailing. A woman who believes in him even in his messed up state. A woman who will be a safe haven; d harbor where he docks his fears and finds shelter from d storms of life.

If a man finds THIS TRUST in a woman, He can never let her go regardless her shortcomings and flaws as a human. He would defend her and sacrifice his ALL for her. Even when their relationship is tested by life's Topsy-turvy or attacked by internal/external forces, He will fight for it with all he's got because THE TRUST he found in her is built to stand against the winds of adversity. It is as STRONG AS A ROCK. A Man would climb through the clouds for a TRUSTWORTHY WOMAN But HOW CAN HE FIND HER???