Anyone living or has lived in the 20th century will concur that the concept of marriage is, or will I inarguably say, totally different from the last century we read about. Some of us are privileged to hear all it from our grannies.
How and where we misplaced that old concept is not a focus of this article because I believe it didn't start to become a societal epidemy beyond our control. We gradually embraced it individually, especially when we accepted the white man's culture. We accepted the totality of it. So to curb why marriages fail, we must swallow the bitter pill individually.
Now let's look at why marriages fail. You can add yours, because this is s
Marriages fail because we humans no longer acknowledge the author of the union(God). We jump into plans without seeking his guidance.
Marriages fail because we are desperate to fulfill societal obligation just to avoid pressure.
Marriages fail because young ladies marry for financial benefits instead of love, they run away immediately the man becomes broke. No endurance is considered at all.
Marriages fail because husbands no longer value their wives, they commit adultery openly without shame thereby inviting the devil to dominate their homes all in the name of "MEN ARE IN CHARGE."
Marriages fail because couples forget their vows so easily and fail to forgive a partner so quickly for his/her wrong.
Marriages fail because some churches have mislead some christains who do not know their stand in God and the purpose for marriage.
Marriages fail because society has brainwashed couples especially women from respecting their husbands. Instead of submission what we see is competition.
Marriages fail because parents no longer show good examples to their kids, know that the way you treat your spouse in front of your kids is same mentality he/she will grow up with.
A foundation built on God, love and tolerance can never be shaken. Divorce shouldn't be considered as the first option.
written by ©Nancy Daniels
How and where we misplaced that old concept is not a focus of this article because I believe it didn't start to become a societal epidemy beyond our control. We gradually embraced it individually, especially when we accepted the white man's culture. We accepted the totality of it. So to curb why marriages fail, we must swallow the bitter pill individually.
Now let's look at why marriages fail. You can add yours, because this is s
Marriages fail because we humans no longer acknowledge the author of the union(God). We jump into plans without seeking his guidance.
Marriages fail because we are desperate to fulfill societal obligation just to avoid pressure.
Marriages fail because young ladies marry for financial benefits instead of love, they run away immediately the man becomes broke. No endurance is considered at all.
Marriages fail because husbands no longer value their wives, they commit adultery openly without shame thereby inviting the devil to dominate their homes all in the name of "MEN ARE IN CHARGE."
Marriages fail because couples forget their vows so easily and fail to forgive a partner so quickly for his/her wrong.
Marriages fail because some churches have mislead some christains who do not know their stand in God and the purpose for marriage.
Marriages fail because society has brainwashed couples especially women from respecting their husbands. Instead of submission what we see is competition.
Marriages fail because parents no longer show good examples to their kids, know that the way you treat your spouse in front of your kids is same mentality he/she will grow up with.
A foundation built on God, love and tolerance can never be shaken. Divorce shouldn't be considered as the first option.
written by ©Nancy Daniels
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