Thursday, November 8, 2018

JUNGLE JUSTICE...

I was born in Bariga, bred in Abule-egba, hustled in Mushin, working in Maza-maza; all in Lagos State. All the places that harbored me ain't cool places at all. They are GHETTOes. Places that have at least a market in them which runs for twenty four hours  a day; this is a clear evidence that living live there is survival of the fittest.
Everyone in these places cherishes a kobo of their money, and anyone who tries to make them become a kobo poorer, except the police force or strong forces intervene, pays with his/her life.

Many lives have been wasted in the course of jungle justice all because of the assumption that the victim must have stolen from many others, aiding much pain. Majority of the beaters are always of the opinion that it's a revenge for their stolen property.
It's quite a pity... Many of the beaters ain't saints themselves.
I'm not justifying from any angle that stealing for any reason is right, but then, there are other ways to solve the problem than wasting a life. They are humans like us too. They have the right to live, then why do we end their lives when all of us put together cannot give a life?
Maybe we haven't really asked ourselves deep questions about why they steal so cheaply like they do.

*Some are due to frustration,
*Some survival,
*Some habit, no doubt
*Some way of life.

None of the reasons are physically engineered, mind you.
That was how a young guy was nearly burnt in a market the other day for what he was innocent about. He paid an old woman for what he bought from her. The old woman on the other hand, didn't remember that the boy had paid, cried out "Ole!"(thief!) after the guy had left. The old Yoruba woman cried so pitifully and fell to the ground, letting loose her wrapper that guys angrily spread out in groups in search of the guy. A group saw the neatly dressed guy in front of another seller negotiating the price of an item he wanted to buy. In anger and revenge, they dazed the guy, and started shouting "ole!"
The news spread like weird fire, more angry guys ran towards that spot. Slaps and punches were flying in the air, all targeted on the guy's face or neck. The guy initially was fighting back because he believed the best way to defend is to attack, not until more guys came to the scene.
When the drama was getting to the point of guys rolling tyres to get the guy burnt, some men from Iya-Oloja (Mother of Market) came and insisted that the case would be settled at the office of Iya-Olaja.

Iya-Oloja ordered the old woman to be summoned to tell her own part of the story. The victim spoke after the old woman, who already hung her wrapper on her neck revealing her dirty faded shimi skirt, gave her tale. The guy was bleeding from the cut parts of his already swollen face. When his narration got to the juncture when the old woman used his money to complete the balance she gave to a man that bought some items before him, the old woman furrowed her eyes like she saw a spirit.
"Oto ni o!" she exclaimed softly. "O fun mi l'owo l'oto! Yei! T'emi bami l'eni! Ah!  Omo mi, (she knelt down now) jo, dariji mi. (it's true o... She exclaimed softly... He truly gave me money, I've met my end today! Ah! My child, forgive me... She started crying...
I know many more are guilty as caught and/or accused, but in all, two wrongs can NEVER make a right.

NO TO JUNGLE JUSTICE!

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Wednesday, November 7, 2018

YOUR PATH IS GO'IN TO BE LONELY

First of all the questions we need to ask ourselves is where are we heading too? What will surely come to our mind are two extremities. One of which is;
Will it be Positive?
And the second is, will it be Negative?

There are so many PATHs in life we follow which are our own opinions and they shouldn't come with  interference since our directions in life is solely based on them.

*. Life could be so unBEARABLE, yet you could still be "LONELY".

*. Life could be filled with LOVE, yet you could still be "LONELY".

*. Life can be filled with CROSSED BOUNDARIES, yet you could still be "LONELY".

*. Life could be so... Beautiful yet you could still be "LONELY".
*  You could be Gifted extraordinarily, yet you could still be "LONELY".
*. You could be Rich or Wealthy yet you could still be "LONELY".
*. You can be Charming, Handsome, Pretty and Beautiful yet you still "LONELY".

REMEDY

 Take "LIFE" the way it is weather it be Good or Bad. Your PATH will always be "LONELY" at some junctures no matter how perfect you are. 
Get yourself equipped for those rainy days, those lonely days, for it is surely a season to come. That makes life what it really is. 

For PENSWORLD I stand!!!

Written by Kingsley N. Ibezim.

Monday, November 5, 2018

...........THAT MARRIED MAN AND I.........

On that faithful day,
I met with Mr. Nelson. He gave a willful smile and a decent manner of approach.
He dressed responsible! Oh yea!
Like one of those men with high level of intergrity.
He asked me to tell him about me.
After all saying had been made, He got my number.
Checking his left hand, I saw a gold ring in his middle finger.
I was grateful for at least a grown up man like him knows the importance and usefulness of getting married on time!
Alas! I was convinced that he is a helper!
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His kind gestures made me pray for him continually! Yea!!
He told me about his family; how he met his wife..
I was glad, he never hid anything from me.
He credited my account... Oh! I scream!!
Indeed a good man. I said,
As time ticked on,......
He agree to sponsored my textbooks bills, my feeding etc..
What will ever made me doubts his simplicity!!
Oh yea! Nothing!!
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Then one day...
He invited me to his office,
Without no ambiguous thought I went..
His Secretary wasn't around.. He was alone!
I trusted him to be a good man.. Nothing illicit crossed my mind.
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While talking, laughing, he ask me some question about my life.. I was glad telling him as a father, looking forward to received a father's advice.
Suddenly he smile and came closer to me.
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This time around he began to say...
"I love you, I wish I can have you all for myself, I promise to do times(*)10 of what I have been doing for you! If you will allow me sleep with you."
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Did I heard him very well?
Sleep with me? Oh no!
My temperature rose to the highest degree.
My blood was on a mission!
My voice shaky!
My soul weary!
My heart skipped!
My strength waned!!!
Could this be reality or daydreaming?
I asked myself! "
Oh no!" I exclaimed loud!!!!
"Remember I'm a young girl sir!"
He boldly reply "Of course I know!"
Many thought came dripping down in me!!
This time around my hatred for men started.
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I wanted to scream.....
He held my mouth, walk pass me, bolted the door of his office, came closer....
He wasn't touch by the tears rolling down from my eyes...
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WAIT BEFORE YOU JUDGE!
How would I have known?
Thinking he was a helper!!
With all his generosity, kind gestures.
A married man with children!
How on earth should he think of doing this to a young Lady of sixteen.
I cried!
There was no way to scream.
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Disvirgin myself to this old man, that claimed to be a good man..... "Oh no!l I proclaimed.
But there was nothing I could do...
Than to close my heart...watch and give my self in..
Tears rolled down my eyes,
He came closer....
He unzipped my dress....
Then...........
I woke up
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Focus 1 .:-
To my beautiful ladies out there who have fallen a victim in the hands of this prey, I'm so sorry!!! But it's never too late to amend your ruins.
And to every lady, never rush to accept help from men, be prayerful never to fall into the hands of destiny destroyers.
Not all that glitter is gold.
FOCUS 2:-
To the married men out there......
My outermost surprise is getting to know the difference between your wives at home and young ladies. A lot of innocent young ladies have fallen into your traps!!
WHY CAN'T YOU LEAVE OUR YOUNG LADIES FOR OUR HUSBAND?


Written by Blessing Amos

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